I know that when we love someone, we listen,
and they mostly feel heard by us, perhaps even always.
We listen especially when a loved one is troubled
we listen to feel with them through anything,
we have all the time in the world To Get It Right in more ways then one
its not our own life journey what our loved one is going through
so we are not afraid to listen with all our sensen
incl. imagination to keep ot all together
and we go deep enough to feel and see with them, be at their view
so that later on, from our own silent empathetic objective
from knowing the person and their ways of lighting up
we sum up quite naturally some different ways
of helping them just by caring enough for this to be a natural consequence from within us
because our loved ones matter the most after all and everything, we will reach them99% of the time through fearless loving patience, understanding, support.
Help them to see the best of themselves till they stand strong in those aspects feeling whole enough to get back up again.
…when we love our closest friend really, we just want as much of their time in pressense as we can possibly get in this life, without any other demands on them.