Let’s be real, even though the truth always freaks out the sheeple in most any human.
But I’m not the only woman to has given up on men several times, even just from observing how men tend to take the female in life, how they behave to women, (I gave up on men the first time in my life, even before I had my first sex ever!), and therefore I’ve been single most of my life and in fact even been so turned off by men, that my own sexual feelings would hibernate for extremely long periods of time. I remember one time period where I didn’t even feel any sexual feelings at all, for eleven whole months. But I would generally go for years without getting with any guy for more than just some kissing.
And part of the Truth is, that No Man has ever been able to keep me going with him, and that mainly because most men seem as if the only reason they want a woman in their life, is just to have as much sex as possible. …while most men don’t even know how to go about the female body to make her pick up on his desire, to the point where we can actually share it. In fact such sensitivity ~ such intelligence, is so hard to find in men (atleast in available men!), that to have a male partner, it (quite logically in this disconnected human civilization where one can’t even live without money for even just a day) appears to be the case, that most men should then really be paying a woman a fat monthly amount to be with him, for all what they have to put up with in a relationship.
Never mind that most men can’t even clean properly, if at all. And some of my breakups have been due to such retarded feeling facts.
There are of course women who have such an unnatural sexdrive, that they would be pregnant all the time, year after year, if we really lived all natural without all the hazardous pills and such things. But all the rest of all women (natural women) really deserve a fat monthly girlfriend/wife fee, for (among other things) being sexually objectified.
I am one of those types that people tend to open up to and confide in, and so I can say, that most women could and might as well just write a collective letter, sounding something like this;
You will surely loose me at some point if you keep going on, as if I was just a thing, without any sensitivity on the sexual side of things (especially). If you think you can just come up to me and grab my most sacred parts as if they were just things of yours, then we certainly have no future together (and then it actually appears that you should be gay if you want to behave as if women were like men). And then (if you're not actually gay) you're certainly too primitively simple and careless behind the fasade.
Also, if you do actually want love, then you must be your woman's best friend, for example meaning, that you can't be the boss of her (unless she wants to give up total responsibility for herself (and most people don't want such types, because of all the other crap that type of person actually comes with)). And you must want to share lifes non-sexual pleasures with your woman, those things that she wants to enjoy with you. Unless you wanna risk being abandoned one day if you happen to become impotent.
And when it does come to sex, then lazyness / shortcuts and any other insensitive (~unintelligent) ways, will undoubtedly make you lonely anyhow. So Learn about the female feelings and the temple we call body (which you must respect very highly).
Alternatively, if you think you're too good for making efforts, just go get a prostitute. ...and perhaps even a servant, or someone who wants to be your slave.
I am lucky to know men, who are not behaving like any of this (not behaving as if they were retarded, or gay instead of into women), and so I’ve experienced most breakups to be for rather more decent reasons. But the fact remains, that too many confidential conversations with other women, do underline the case here, of all this non-decent ~unintelligent male behaviour. Another truth is, that intelligence is really just a potential to be developed on different areas. And apparently much too many men have not developed it much, if at all, on the relationship area. I’ve been best friends with many men, and so I’ve witnessed that those few good ones end up paying too much too often, for the mischief of those misbehaving men.
On the other hand, just because someone is what we call dyslexic, does not mean that they’re lacking any intelligence potential at all, and as an example I can tell you that Albert Einstein was dyslexic. Part of all our problems in our human society is that we’re misinformed about intelligence (and too many other things). And on this note Id also like to mention that having named a certain type of technology Artificial intelligence, is not only misleading, but it shows exactly what I just stated; generally humans don’t correctly know about intelligence.
One can easily say, that intelligence has to do with developing our understanding of all sorts of things of nature, which includes our own personal nature and the differences thereof.
Intelligence can never be artificial, because …well, one simple way to say it is, that it has no soul, it is not of nature. And nature with its cosmos and all so to say, is intelligence itself, is “God/Allah etc.”, while we don’t even understand that the space between us and everything, is not nothing but air, is not empty. So we have alot of intelligence potential to develop.
Not even a genius is perfect, and in fact they are far from genius on subjects outside their expertise. Nobody is worth cutting away at yourself for. Compassion, Respect, Understanding, flexibility and compromise is the way.
Atleast half of the reasons humans are suffering illnesses and other personal and social imbalances, is because they are brought up to cut away at their self to feel acceptance, to feel loved. And so, people even suppress their own feelings, and somehow a trend has been spread, which is overriding human nature in more ways, making people suppress their feelings even more, because now we’re supposedly should be Possitive only all the way, not express our feelings to process anything in order to get well. If you wanna do that seemingly negative stuff, go do it alone! While the truth is that we’re a tribal social species that need each other. Lots of old sayings, such as Love concurs all, we’re not made and passed down through generations for no good reasons. Love heals. Compassion, Respect, Understanding, flexibility and compromise is the way. Yet when someone is suffering, weather classic illness or some painful/health-/wellbeing-destructive imbalances, then they are to be cared for with wisdom, of course without having them doing compromise.
Humans are so disconnected that they will say things mixed with humor, but which can never really be funny at all. Laughing is healthy, but spiteful laughs are literally poisonous. For example if someone says something like, “oh you’re broken, I have to exchange you” then theily are hurting that person they talking about. This will undoubtedly on average cause a person to start shutting down their truth, and so they will start getting more and more unwell. For example they might start getting inflammations, that eventually become physical issues such as either severe illness or chronic sufferings.
Also, if you don’t accept a person’s process, then you are equally hurting them, ~ hurting their progress, their development, all in all their wellbeing.
Shortly said, humans don’t understand what love is, and so they collectively destroy each other and themselves.
And regarding the sexual aspects, even men who work in jobs where they are objectified, they too develop allergy like feelings to sexual things, and start become A-sexual as well. So it is obviously a human thing, and not a female thing only.
Many men dream of being a sex slave, but what they don’t know is, that in practical reality, things are not as one imagines them to be. Not to mention that being a slave in any way, is being subject to suffering.
The good-/satisfying- feeling sexual thing’s purpose is to remind us hiw fine we are, to not let you forget that you’re fine. Too much of anything is unhealthy, and in time, those who exaggerate with sex, they will experience the results of that overindulgence sooner or later without any doubt.